{"id":762,"date":"2015-10-13T08:13:39","date_gmt":"2015-10-13T08:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/?p=762"},"modified":"2021-03-03T02:23:15","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T02:23:15","slug":"in-yourself-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/signs-codependency\/in-yourself-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs of Your Codependency"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1468022717852{margin-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221;]<style>.vcex-navbar.vcex_6a20c35a05c51{font-size:16px;}<\/style><nav class=\"vcex-navbar vcex-module align-left wpex-clr vcex_6a20c35a05c51\"><div class=\"vcex-navbar-inner wpex-clr wpex-float-left wpex-last-mr-0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/\" class=\"vcex-navbar-link vcex-navbar-link--316 wpex-inline-block wpex-float-left wpex-mr-5 wpex-mb-5 theme-txt-link wpex-text-1em wpex-semi-rounded vc_custom_1468022672054\"><span class=\"vcex-navbar-link-text\">The Codependent<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/relationship-recovery-the-codependents-role\/\" class=\"vcex-navbar-link vcex-navbar-link--886 wpex-inline-block wpex-float-left wpex-mr-5 wpex-mb-5 theme-txt-link wpex-text-1em wpex-semi-rounded vc_custom_1468022672054\"><span class=\"vcex-navbar-link-text\">Relationship Recovery<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/nav>[vc_empty_space height=&#8221;10px&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay=&#8221;color&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay_color=&#8221;#004982&#8243; wpex_bg_overlay_opacity=&#8221;.80&#8243;][vc_column][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614665144850{margin-top: 30px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Montserrat; color: #ffffff; font-size: 21px;\">6 Signs of Your Codependence<\/span><\/h2>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; column_spacing=&#8221;10&#8243; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614665087672{margin-top: 30px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:40px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614736700372{margin-left: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<span class=\"dropcap\">N<\/span>arcissism is only one side of the dance.<\/p>\n<p>It is much easier to blame your partner, but can you face the 6 signs of your codependency in yourself?[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;slideInRight&#8221; 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font-size: 21px;\">You need the support and approval of other people to feel good about yourself and move forward with your plans and goals?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Your happiness and ability to work towards your goals are closely tied to what your spouse thinks of you?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2\u00a0 \u00a0Low Self Love and Personal Care<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Have you suffered from an illness that was perhaps psychosomatic; where you became sick because you believed you were not getting enough love and attention?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do you long for a &#8216;hero&#8217; to save you?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You spend your life waiting for your partner to call?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2\u00a0 \u00a0Lack of Personal Responsibility<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You avoid facing your addictions and instead blame them on your mother, father, husband, wife or children&#8217;s bad behaviour?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You are emotionally demanding\u2014using moods to get your partner to give you love? i.e. \u201cI am sad, so you should take care of me!\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do you often feel your marriage partner has stolen\u2014and is hence responsible for\u2014your happiness?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2\u00a0 \u00a0Misplaced Responsibility<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You feel responsible for your husband or wife&#8217;s negative feelings?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">If someone is upset with you saying, &#8220;No&#8221; to them\u2014even when they are not around\u2014you find it difficult to stay focused on your own life and goals?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2\u00a0 \u00a0You Expect Others to Read Your Mind<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do you believe someone guessing your needs is a sign of love?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Have you expected support from your partner without asking?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2\u00a0 \u00a0Misplaced Trust<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Have you expected people in your life to play fair when you have no good reason to trust them?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;50px&#8221;][vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px; font-family: georgia, palatino;\"><strong>~ Select any text on this page to see our <em>share on Twitter and Facebook function ~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;50px&#8221;][vc_column_text]\n<figure id=\"attachment_11\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-11\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/kim_cooper_web.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-11 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/kim_cooper_web-300x287.jpg\" alt=\"Kim Describes the signs of Codependency\" width=\"300\" height=\"287\" srcset=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/kim_cooper_web-300x287.jpg 300w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/kim_cooper_web.jpg 483w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-11\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kim Cooper<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span class=\"dropcap\">I<\/span>f you would like to address the signs of your codependence, please begin with our easy to read book; titled &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/10-steps-to-overcome-codependence\/\">10 Steps to Overcome Codependence&#8221;<\/a>. If you don&#8217;t have a lot of time, the steps in this concise book are an excellent place to start. Simple guidelines to shift your life away from this unhealthy way of looking at relationships.<\/p>\n<p>If you have more time, I suggest that you sign up for our online tutorial and allow me to guide you through the steps in our program. This will also make you eligible for introductory specials on our eBooks.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1589007425816{border-radius: 4px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:20px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000649;\"><strong>Learn the 3 bad habits\u2014most codependents do every day\u2014that will eventually destroy your marriage:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588929388880{padding-top: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 15px !important;background-color: #fcae6a !important;border-radius: 4px !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><a style=\"color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/\"><span style=\"font-family: 'arial black', 'avant garde';\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">Free Intro to Kim&#8217;s Tutorial<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text]<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dummies.com\/health\/mental-health\/codependency\/selfresponsibility-and-codependency\/\">https:\/\/www.dummies.com\/health\/mental-health\/codependency\/selfresponsibility-and-codependency\/<\/a><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.whatiscodependency.com\/codependency-low-selfesteem-relationships\/\">https:\/\/www.whatiscodependency.com\/codependency-low-selfesteem-relationships\/<\/a><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_column][\/vc_column]\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Signs of Your Codependence in Marriage. 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