{"id":760,"date":"2015-10-13T08:05:14","date_gmt":"2015-10-13T08:05:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/?p=760"},"modified":"2020-05-09T05:22:01","modified_gmt":"2020-05-09T05:22:01","slug":"in-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/signs-codependency\/in-your-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Codependency in Your Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1468022847366{margin-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221;]<style>.vcex-navbar.vcex_6a20c35edca6a{font-size:16px;}<\/style><nav class=\"vcex-navbar vcex-module align-left wpex-clr vcex_6a20c35edca6a\"><div class=\"vcex-navbar-inner wpex-clr wpex-float-left wpex-last-mr-0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/\" class=\"vcex-navbar-link vcex-navbar-link--316 wpex-inline-block wpex-float-left wpex-mr-5 wpex-mb-5 theme-txt-link wpex-text-1em wpex-semi-rounded vc_custom_1468022899323\"><span class=\"vcex-navbar-link-text\">The Codependent<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/relationship-recovery-the-codependents-role\/\" class=\"vcex-navbar-link vcex-navbar-link--886 wpex-inline-block wpex-float-left wpex-mr-5 wpex-mb-5 theme-txt-link wpex-text-1em wpex-semi-rounded vc_custom_1468022899323\"><span class=\"vcex-navbar-link-text\">Relationship Recovery<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/nav>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row center_row=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/codependency_in_your_marriage.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-862\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/codependency_in_your_marriage-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Codependency in your marriage: Drowning Hand waving for help in in heart\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Codependency in Your Marriage<\/h2>\n<p><span class=\"dropcap\">I<\/span>f you are living with a codependent partner, you may recognise some of these signs of codependency in your marriage:<\/p>\n<h3>Insensitive to Your Needs<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Does your partner always want to talk about your relationship when you would rather be doing something else?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Are they always criticising you and claiming you are responsible for their unhappiness?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do they expect you to make them happy, not noticing that you are not happy either?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do they complain about you to their friends and your children?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Demanding<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">If you don\u2019t care for your partner\u2014in all the ways they want you to\u2014do they say something is wrong with you?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">They expect things from you that you really don\u2019t know how to give?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do they claim you are heartless if you don\u2019t put their needs before your own?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">They expect you to guess what they need and get upset and angry when you don\u2019t?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Emotionally Manipulative<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Do they do things for you that you really don\u2019t ask for or want\u2014but then get upset when you don\u2019t give something in return?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Is your partner often emotional, moody or sick and expecting you to care about them more than you do?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Immature<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; 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