{"id":755,"date":"2015-10-13T07:36:47","date_gmt":"2015-10-13T07:36:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/?p=755"},"modified":"2021-03-03T02:59:47","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T02:59:47","slug":"signs-of-your-own-narcissism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism\/signs-of-your-own-narcissism\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs of Your Own Narcissism"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1468022717852{margin-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221;]<style>.vcex-navbar.vcex_6a20d20184ec0{font-size:16px;}<\/style><nav class=\"vcex-navbar vcex-module align-left wpex-clr vcex_6a20d20184ec0\"><div class=\"vcex-navbar-inner wpex-clr wpex-float-left wpex-last-mr-0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/the-narcissist\/\" class=\"vcex-navbar-link vcex-navbar-link--313 wpex-inline-block wpex-float-left wpex-mr-5 wpex-mb-5 theme-txt-link wpex-text-1em wpex-semi-rounded vc_custom_1614739398376\"><span class=\"vcex-navbar-link-text\">The Narcissist<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/nav>[vc_empty_space height=&#8221;10px&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay=&#8221;color&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay_color=&#8221;#004982&#8243; wpex_bg_overlay_opacity=&#8221;.80&#8243;][vc_column][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614739670555{margin-top: 30px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Montserrat; color: #ffffff; font-size: 21px;\">Signs of Your Own Narcissism Checklist<\/span><\/h2>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; column_spacing=&#8221;10&#8243; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614665087672{margin-top: 30px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:40px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; [vc_column_text]<span class=\"dropcap\">Y<\/span>our<a title=\"The Narcissist\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/the-narcissist\/\">\u00a0marriage<\/a> will not improve without finding the courage to face how these signs of your own narcissism\u2014listed below\u2014hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>While this pattern of behaviour is more common in men, you should know that <a title=\"Women and Men Can Both Show Signs of Narcissism\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/women-and-men-can-both-show-signs-of-narcissism\/\">both women a<\/a><a title=\"Women and Men Can Both Show Signs of Narcissism\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/women-and-men-can-both-show-signs-of-narcissism\/\">nd men can show signs of narcissism<\/a>.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;858&#8243; css_animation=&#8221;slideInRight&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row center_row=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;12&#8243;][vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px; font-family: georgia, palatino;\"><strong>~ Select any text on this page to see our\u00a0<em>share on Twitter and Facebook function ~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;12&#8243;][vc_column_text]\n<h3>\u25a2 You Have an Established Pattern of Seducing and Abandoning Admirers<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\"><a title=\"Affairs: Physical\/Emotional\/Fantasy\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/marital-affairs\/\">You crave attention and affection from someone who treats you like you are special (superior)<\/a>.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Once past the &#8216;honeymoon stage&#8217;, relationships become a depressing chore.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2 You Lack Accountability<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">The thought of admitting embarrassment at your mistakes is horrifying.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">When people question you, it makes you feel angry.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Even when it&#8217;s your fault, you resent your family blaming their sadness, anger or disappointment on you.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2 You Feel a Deep-Seated Disappointment at Other People&#8217;s Good Manners, Vulnerability &amp; Lack of Assertiveness<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You long for a \u2018worthy opponent\u2019 to match or even \u2018tame\u2019 you.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">The conversation loses interest for you when you&#8217;re not the one talking.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You feel trapped in a bubble where nothing can hurt or touch you but which also causes you to feel separate from others.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\"><strong><em>People&#8217;s stupidity and weakness\u2014in your opinion\u2014makes them deserve to be exploited.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2 Fear of Vulnerability<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Asking for what you need directly is troubling.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You sometimes wish you knew how to surrender.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\"><em><strong>Other people&#8217;s emotions make you feel defensive and angry.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2 Two-Faced<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\"><a title=\"Narcissism in Your Marriage\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/your-marriage\/\">You treat your spouse different in private than in public<\/a>.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">Your children are subject to favouritism.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">Your private life is at odds with your stated morals and values.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u25a2 Self Pity<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You crave sympathy for being misunderstood and deeply frustrated that most people don&#8217;t see how unique and special (superior) you are.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px;\">You are shocked at what the world expects from you and feel angry that life isn\u2019t easier.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"mceTemp\"><\/div>\n[vc_row full_width=&#8221;&#8221; 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Sex\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/love-sex\/\">trapped and lonely this pattern of thinking leaves you?<\/a> If you can, I hope you will decide to let us help you discover a new way of experiencing life.<\/p>\n<p>Your <a title=\"The Narcissist\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/the-narcissist\/\">narcissistic view on love &amp; marriage<\/a> will not improve without finding the courage to face how these signs of your own narcissism hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>To assist you with this, Kim has two books and audio&#8217;s I highly recommend that we produced together &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/your-blind-spot\/\">Your Blind Spot,<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/emotional-stupidity\/\">Emotional Stupidity<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/reconnect\/\">Reconnect 1&amp;2<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to enjoy healthier and more deeply fulfilling <a title=\"Narcissism Love &amp; Sex\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism-marriage\/love-sex\/\">marriage and sex<\/a> life, I&#8217;m sure you will find this work worth the effort. But ignore these signs, and you will never find your longing for love satisfied.<\/p>\n<h3>This Deserves Your Attention<\/h3>\n<p>Although you may feel that nothing can hurt or touch you\u2014left unaddressed\u2014this kind of false pride will lead you to disaster. Disasters that may include, multiple relationship breakdowns, nervous breakdowns and career breakdowns. Your narcissism may even see you end up on the street\u2014or in jail\u2014and your family disjointed and in tatters.<\/p>\n<p>Not the rewards the amazing person you are deserves to be awarded in life? Well\u2014take my challenge\u2014and stop blaming other people, and let&#8217;s see if you can face your narcissism head on!<\/p>\n<p>Those titles again? &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/your-blind-spot\/\">Your Blind Spot,<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/emotional-stupidity\/\">Emotional Stupidity<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/reconnect\/\">Reconnect 1&amp;2<\/a>.[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:50px;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A checklist of signs of narcissism in yourself. 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