{"id":5760,"date":"2021-03-20T06:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T06:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/?p=5760"},"modified":"2021-03-25T06:19:34","modified_gmt":"2021-03-25T06:19:34","slug":"the-rape-grey-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/free-intro\/the-rape-grey-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"The Rape Grey Zone"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay=&#8221;color&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1613288773337{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 10px !important;}&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay_color=&#8221;#004982&#8243; wpex_bg_overlay_opacity=&#8221;.80&#8243;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1616223135811{margin-top: 30px !important;}&#8221; font_family=&#8221;Lato&#8221; font_size=&#8221;26&#8243; font_weight=&#8221;600&#8243;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Montserrat; color: #ffffff; font-size: 21px;\"><em>Pilot Episode of Kim &amp; Steve&#8217;s New Podcast Series:<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Roboto; font-size: 24px;\">Reassessing the Sexual Contract<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row gap=&#8221;30&#8243; remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1613292866748{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1616223180702{margin-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/31PofYILCG4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1616653170836{margin-top: 0px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Codependency = A whole Spectrum of Exploitation<\/h2>\n<p><span class=\"dropcap\">A<\/span>ustralia is in crisis. Rape culture has been exposed this year at all levels of society. The media has been awash with stories, but where is the conversation taking us? Are the real answers alluding because we can&#8217;t see the bigger picture?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>Kim suggests in this episode that rape needs to be viewed from a larger context. Sexual exploitation is often just the start. Codependency sets up its victims for exploitation in just about every area of life.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The rape grey zone in our media\u2014<em>with young adults in particular<\/em>\u2014has raised some serious questions. Was the victim in a fit state to grant consent? This conversation is important but mainly focuses on drugs and alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>But what about the deeper questions consent raises about the sexual contract?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Does rape cause mental illness or does mental illness cause people to imagine they have been raped?<\/li>\n<li>Is consent the only issue?\u00a0 What about intent and motive?<\/li>\n<li>What if a victim is &#8216;set up&#8217; and caught off guard?<\/li>\n<li>Is it possible for a person to have been raped and not know it?<\/li>\n<li>How do women protect themselves in a world where trust has become so difficult?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This pilot episode of our new podcast series opens a conversation that will help answer these and other questions.<\/p>\n<p>Rather than wait for help from the government, school or legal institutions, families must become aware of how they unwittingly raise their children to participate in rape culture. This understanding will at the same time help us heal our troubled homes.<\/p>\n<p>The conversation in this pilot episode kicks off our new series: Reassessing Our Society&#8217;s Sexual Contract.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you will join us in our member&#8217;s area to view the next 4 episodes. A place online where the conversation on this subject is quickly moving forward.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; column_spacing=&#8221;10&#8243; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588902755189{margin-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:40px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1616221202723{margin-left: 20px !important;}&#8221;]\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather;\">Join Our Members Area and Gain Access to the Series<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thelovesafetynet.com\/\">&gt;&gt;&gt; Join Our Member&#8217;s Area&lt;&lt;&lt;<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather;\">Learn More About Narcissism and Codependency<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/\">&gt;&gt;&gt; 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color: #000649;\"><strong>~Select any text on this page to see our <em>share on Twitter and Facebook function~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:20px;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614648948652{border-top-width: 1px !important;border-right-width: 2px !important;border-bottom-width: 2px !important;border-left-width: 1px !important;padding-top: 5px !important;padding-right: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;border-left-color: #949199 !important;border-left-style: groove !important;border-right-color: #949199 !important;border-right-style: groove !important;border-top-color: #949199 !important;border-top-style: groove !important;border-bottom-color: #949199 !important;border-bottom-style: groove !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1612061284451{margin-bottom: 15px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Are Narcissism &amp; Codependency Destroying Your Marriage?<\/h3>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1590117883193{margin-right: 40px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]<span class=\"dropcap\">I<\/span>s your marriage full of hurt, hard feelings, anger and disappointment: with little room left for love?[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614653134741{margin-bottom: 20px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">Codependency and Marriage<\/span><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588904289251{margin-right: 40px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]We often use the term <strong>Emotional Dependence<\/strong> rather than codependency because, unlike complicated psychology; it explains the problem more simply.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s wonderful to be loved and appreciated. <strong>Emotional Dependence<\/strong><strong> and Marriage,\u00a0<\/strong>however,\u00a0are a disastrous mix. Needing someone&#8217;s love and approval to feel good about yourself and that you need to &#8220;fix things&#8221; every time your partner feels angry or upset, will soon make married life with you into a chore.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614653145070{margin-bottom: 20px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">Narcissism and Marriage<\/span><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1590118454511{margin-right: 40px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]Narcissism and marriage are an even worse combination. Because the narcissistic outlook on life is so different, people with narcissistic tendencies won&#8217;t appreciate the way their codependent spouse goes about getting his or her emotional needs met. In love with the <em>idea of being loved and adored, <\/em>if this person sees that their marriage partner is unhappy, the narcissist will seek love and approval outside the marriage and treat other people much better than their spouse.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissism and codependency are patterns of behaviour that cause family dysfunction. They will cause chaos and disappointment in marriage and eventually destroy love.<\/p>\n<p>Many of us learned these patterns of behaviour growing up.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissistic\/codependent marriages are more common than you might think.<\/p>\n<p>A narcissistic\/codependent marriage does not mean your marriage must end. This website is the portal to help you end the conflict and also help you find support.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221;][vc_column]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:20px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px; color: #000649;\"><strong>~Select any text on this page to see our <em>share on Twitter and Facebook function~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:20px;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588894529552{background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h3>Learn More About the <a title=\"Signs of Narcissism\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/the-narcissist\/signs-of-narcissism\/\">Signs of Narcissism<\/a> and <a title=\"Signs of Codependency\" 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Giving up the game allows for new paths.<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/self-help-for-narcissism\/selfish-reasons-look-narcissism\/\">Read More<\/a> . . .<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div><style>.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb305eb{padding-inline-end:0px;padding-inline-start:3px;padding-block:0px;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb305eb .vcex-feature-box-heading{color:#000649;font-size:21px;font-family:Lato, sans-serif;font-weight:800;}@media (min-width:640px){.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb305eb .vcex-feature-box-content{width:55%;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb305eb .vcex-feature-box-media{width:45%;}}<\/style><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-feature-box vcex-feature-box--stackable wpex-flex wpex-flex-col 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title=\"\"class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading-link wpex-no-underline\"><h4 class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading wpex-heading wpex-mb-20\">Narcissism and Sex<\/h4><\/a><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-text wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr\"><p>Each new admirer becomes &#8216;the one&#8217; special person whose attention you crave, but like a mirage, in a short time the illusion fades. <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/narcissist\/signs-narcissism\/love-sex\/\">Read More<\/a> . . .<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:7px;\"><\/div><style>.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb37b8d{padding-inline-end:3px;padding-inline-start:0px;padding-block:0px;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb37b8d .vcex-feature-box-heading{color:#000649;font-size:21px;font-family:Lato, sans-serif;font-weight:800;}@media (min-width:640px){.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb37b8d .vcex-feature-box-content{width:55%;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb37b8d .vcex-feature-box-media{width:45%;}}<\/style><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-feature-box vcex-feature-box--stackable wpex-flex wpex-flex-col wpex-sm-flex-row-reverse wpex-sm-justify-between wpex-gap-30 left-content-right-image vcex_6a599bdb37b8d\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-media wpex-sm-text-right\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-image wpex-relative\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wpex-align-middle wpex-object-cover\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/definition-codependency-150x150-1.png\" alt=\"Our Definition of Codependency\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-content\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/definition-codependency\/\" title=\"\"class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading-link wpex-no-underline\"><h4 class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading wpex-heading wpex-mb-20\">Our Definition of Codependency<\/h4><\/a><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-text wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/definition-codependency\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Read More<\/a> . . .<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div><style>.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb3991a{padding-inline-end:3px;padding-inline-start:0px;padding-block:0px;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb3991a 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src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/codependency_in_your_marriage-e1446440762570-150x150-1.jpg\" alt=\"Codependency In Your Marriage Partner\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-content\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/signs-codependency\/in-your-marriage\/\" title=\"\"class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading-link wpex-no-underline\"><h4 class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading wpex-heading wpex-mb-20\">Codependency In Your Marriage Partner<\/h4><\/a><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-text wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr\"><p><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather;font-size: 18px\">Does your partner always want to talk about your relationship when you would rather be doing something else? Check for signs of codependency in your marriage.<\/span>\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/signs-codependency\/in-your-marriage\/\">Read More<\/a> . . .<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div><style>.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb44732{padding-inline-end:3px;padding-inline-start:0px;padding-block:0px;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb44732 .vcex-feature-box-heading{color:#000649;font-size:21px;font-family:Lato, sans-serif;font-weight:800;}@media (min-width:640px){.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb44732 .vcex-feature-box-content{width:55%;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb44732 .vcex-feature-box-media{width:45%;}}<\/style><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-feature-box vcex-feature-box--stackable wpex-flex wpex-flex-col 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.vcex-feature-box-heading{color:#000649;font-size:21px;font-family:Lato, sans-serif;font-weight:800;}@media (min-width:640px){.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb51665 .vcex-feature-box-content{width:55%;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb51665 .vcex-feature-box-media{width:45%;}}<\/style><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-feature-box vcex-feature-box--stackable wpex-flex wpex-flex-col wpex-sm-flex-row-reverse wpex-sm-justify-between wpex-gap-30 left-content-right-image vcex_6a599bdb51665\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-media wpex-sm-text-right\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-image wpex-relative\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wpex-align-middle wpex-object-cover\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/better-conversation-150x150-1.jpg\" alt=\"Please Talk to Me\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-content\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/codependency-self-help\/please-talk-to-me\/\" title=\"\"class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading-link wpex-no-underline\"><h4 class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading wpex-heading wpex-mb-20\">Please Talk to Me<\/h4><\/a><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-text wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr\"><p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;font-family: Merriweather\">A marriage partner not wanting to talk is the most common complaint I hear.<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/codependency-self-help\/please-talk-to-me\/\">Read More<\/a> . . .<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div><style>.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb57e45{padding-inline-end:3px;padding-inline-start:0px;padding-block:0px;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb57e45 .vcex-feature-box-heading{color:#000649;font-size:21px;font-family:Lato, sans-serif;font-weight:800;}@media (min-width:640px){.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb57e45 .vcex-feature-box-content{width:55%;}.vcex-feature-box.vcex_6a599bdb57e45 .vcex-feature-box-media{width:45%;}}<\/style><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-feature-box vcex-feature-box--stackable wpex-flex wpex-flex-col wpex-sm-flex-row-reverse wpex-sm-justify-between wpex-gap-30 left-content-right-image vcex_6a599bdb57e45\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-media wpex-sm-text-right\"><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-image wpex-relative\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wpex-align-middle wpex-object-cover\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/what-is-Codependency-150x84.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/what-is-Codependency-150x84.png 150w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/what-is-Codependency-300x168.png 300w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/what-is-Codependency.png 482w\" width=\"150\" height=\"84\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-content\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/signs-codependency\/groomed-for-heart-ache\/\" title=\"\"class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading-link wpex-no-underline\"><h4 class=\"vcex-feature-box-heading wpex-heading wpex-mb-20\">Groomed for Heartache<\/h4><\/a><div class=\"vcex-feature-box-text wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr\"><p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;font-family: Merriweather\">W<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px\"><span style=\"font-size: 18px;font-family: Merriweather\">hat Codependence is and what it is not.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span> <a 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Many men, for instance, will play the narcissistic role at home while acting co-dependently at work. Our aim here is to help you identify the patterns, not diagnose yourself or someone else.<\/p>\n<p>You should also note that in most cases our team have found these labels stereotypes which do not represent the real person. 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