{"id":2798,"date":"2017-11-14T01:01:24","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T01:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/?page_id=2798"},"modified":"2021-03-02T03:21:17","modified_gmt":"2021-03-02T03:21:17","slug":"beyond-marriage-counselling","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/beyond-marriage-counselling\/","title":{"rendered":"Beyond Marriage Counselling"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588903398052{margin-right: 70px !important;margin-bottom: 10px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13px; color: #000000;\"><sup><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #000000; text-decoration: underline;\" title=\"Heal Your Marriage from Home\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/uncategorized\/heal-your-marriage-from-home\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Why Counsellors, Psychologists &amp;\u00a0Psychiatrists Come to Us<\/a><\/span><\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay=&#8221;color&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay_color=&#8221;#004982&#8243; wpex_bg_overlay_opacity=&#8221;.80&#8243;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588988570982{margin-top: 30px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Montserrat; color: #ffffff; font-size: 21px;\">Do You Sometimes Worry; <em>&#8220;We Will Need Years of Therapy to Get Better?&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text 0=&#8221;&#8221;]\n<h3 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Beyond Marriage Counselling\u2014What You Need to Know<\/span><\/h3>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; column_spacing=&#8221;10&#8243; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; tablet_fullwidth_cols=&#8221;yes&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588902755189{margin-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:15px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614476910135{margin-right: 35px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221;]<span class=\"dropcap\">W<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">hen a couple walks together into marriage counselling, both have usually decided to give their marriage time, attention and money. With this level of commitment and a professional counsellor in the lead, you would expect establishing matrimonial harmony should be easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000; font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\"><em>Unfortunately, for many couples, marriage counselling does not end up what they expected.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\"><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px; letter-spacing: 0px;\">Rather than bring them closer, e<\/span>ach partner will generally work to get the counsellor onside. As they square off in opposite corners, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Merriweather; font-size: 21px; letter-spacing: 0px;\">sessions become a battle of &#8216;two against one&#8217;\u2014with the counsellor advocating for divorce or separation.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:55px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;slideInRight&#8221; responsive_text=&#8221;true&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614384032172{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-right: 60px !important;margin-left: px !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/bookshop\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-276\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Back_From_the_Looking_Glass_2013.png\" alt=\"Steps to Peaceful Home - Beyond Marriage Counselling\" width=\"231\" height=\"367\" srcset=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Back_From_the_Looking_Glass_2013.png 647w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Back_From_the_Looking_Glass_2013-94x150.png 94w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Back_From_the_Looking_Glass_2013-189x300.png 189w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Back_From_the_Looking_Glass_2013-644x1024.png 644w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\">Our best seller\u2014now in its 11th edition<\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row wpex_bg_overlay=&#8221;color&#8221; wpex_bg_overlay_color=&#8221;#004982&#8243; wpex_bg_overlay_opacity=&#8221;.80&#8243;][vc_column][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;fadeIn&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588996803634{margin-top: 35px !important;margin-right: 40px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;margin-left: 40px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><span class=\"dropcap\">B<\/span>eyond this type of &#8216;marriage counselling tug-o-war&#8217;, a healthy view on relationships grows from skills known in social science as emotional intelligence. Commonly known as maturity, emotional intelligence describes the wisdom of understanding your emotions.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588894418198{background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:40px;\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-module vcex-divider vcex-divider-solid vcex-divider-center wpex-mx-auto wpex-block wpex-h-0 wpex-border-b wpex-border-solid wpex-border-main\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px; color: #000649;\"><strong>~Select any text on this page to see our <em>share on Twitter and Facebook function~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:20px;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614655274662{border-top-width: 1px !important;border-right-width: 2px !important;border-bottom-width: 0px !important;border-left-width: 1px !important;padding-top: 5px !important;padding-right: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;border-left-color: #949199 !important;border-left-style: groove !important;border-right-color: #949199 !important;border-right-style: groove !important;border-top-color: #949199 !important;border-top-style: groove !important;border-bottom-color: #949199 !important;border-bottom-style: groove !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588992944966{margin-bottom: 25px !important;}&#8221;]\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Emotional Intelligence Training\u00a0as an Alternative to Marriage Counselling<\/h3>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614477155016{margin-top: 15px !important;margin-right: 40px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\"><span class=\"dropcap\">S<\/span>cientists\u2014following thousands of test subjects throughout their lives\u2014have discovered three remarkable <strong>emotional competencies <\/strong>central to an emotionally intelligent view on life. Although rarely discussed beyond the corporate world, these personal skills cause people to <em>do better on every success scale devised by science.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather; color: #800000;\"><em><strong>Emotionally competent people<\/strong> live in better homes, in more peaceful suburbs, make more money, enjoy higher rates of job and marriage satisfaction and experience lower rates of divorce and mental illness in their families. Along with their children they do better at sport, school and work and enjoy better health and social connections (1).&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">Emotional Intelligence is not just important in your marriage.\u00a0<em> It improves the quality of life in just about every way science can measure!\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">Leading these competencies is V<em>agal tone (2),<\/em> which means being able to calm down quickly after an upset.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Personal, Inexpensive &amp; Private<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">Best of all, you can improve your Vagal tone <em>with a few simple exercises.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 21px; font-family: Merriweather;\">We will share these exercises with you\u2014along with the two other emotional competencies\u2014in our online tutorials.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588992537833{border-radius: 4px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:50px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000649;\"><strong>Join Steve&#8217;s list\u2014for men\u2014a family leadership challenge<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:35px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588925359118{padding-top: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 15px !important;background-color: #936b93 !important;border-radius: 3px !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/the-narcissist\/\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff; font-family: 'arial black', 'avant garde';\">Free Intro to Steve&#8217;s Tutorial<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000649;\"><strong>Learn the 3 bad habits\u2014most codependents do every day\u2014that will eventually destroy your marriage:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588929388880{padding-top: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 15px !important;background-color: #fcae6a !important;border-radius: 4px !important;}&#8221;]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><a style=\"color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thencmarriage\/codependent\/\"><span style=\"font-family: 'arial black', 'avant garde';\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">Free Intro to Kim&#8217;s Tutorial<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row remove_bottom_col_margin=&#8221;true&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1588901261790{background-color: #ffffff !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1614477299928{margin-top: 15px !important;margin-right: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 10px !important;margin-left: 0px !important;border-top-width: 1px !important;border-right-width: 1px !important;border-bottom-width: 1px !important;border-left-width: 1px !important;padding-top: 10px !important;padding-right: 10px !important;padding-bottom: 10px !important;padding-left: 12px !important;border-left-color: #000000 !important;border-left-style: solid !important;border-right-color: #000000 !important;border-right-style: solid !important;border-top-color: #000000 !important;border-top-style: solid !important;border-bottom-color: #000000 !important;border-bottom-style: solid !important;border-radius: 10px !important;}&#8221;]<span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 21px;\">Before risking it all in a marriage counselling title match, let us help you uncover what may be causing the heart-ache and the fights. 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