{"id":7476,"date":"2018-10-04T08:41:16","date_gmt":"2018-10-03T22:41:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/?p=7476"},"modified":"2019-04-20T15:32:46","modified_gmt":"2019-04-20T05:32:46","slug":"the-terrain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/the-terrain\/","title":{"rendered":"The Terrain"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Good Fathers &amp; Mothers<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/post-series\/the-good-king-and-queen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Table of Contents Links<\/a><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"vcex-leader vcex-leader-dots vcex-module wpex-overflow-hidden wpex-mx-auto wpex-max-w-100 wpex-last-mb-0 wpex-clr vcex-responsive\"><div class=\"vcex-leader-item wpex-clr\"><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__label vcex-first wpex-pr-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">1. Rules of Induction<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__inner vcex-inner wpex-hidden\">...<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__value vcex-last wpex-float-right wpex-pl-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">Building a Better Family<\/span><\/div><div class=\"vcex-leader-item wpex-clr\"><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__label vcex-first wpex-pr-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">2. Debriefing<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__inner vcex-inner wpex-hidden\">...<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__value vcex-last wpex-float-right wpex-pl-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">Undoing Roadblocks to Cooperation<\/span><\/div><div class=\"vcex-leader-item wpex-clr\"><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__label vcex-first wpex-pr-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">3. Assembling<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__inner vcex-inner wpex-hidden\">...<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__value vcex-last wpex-float-right wpex-pl-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">Everyone Needs a Role<\/span><\/div><div class=\"vcex-leader-item wpex-clr\"><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__label vcex-first wpex-pr-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">4. The Terrain<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__inner vcex-inner wpex-hidden\">...<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__value vcex-last wpex-float-right wpex-pl-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">5 Areas for Balance<\/span><\/div><div class=\"vcex-leader-item wpex-clr\"><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__label vcex-first wpex-pr-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">5. Reaching Agreements<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__inner vcex-inner wpex-hidden\">...<\/span><span class=\"vcex-leader-item__value vcex-last wpex-float-right wpex-pl-5 wpex-surface-1 wpex-relative wpex-z-2\">The Decision Making Process - The DMP<\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:25px;\"><\/div><div class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor vcex-module wpex-flex wpex-w-100 wpex-m-auto\"><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#301961;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#452586;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#301961;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#5f3aae;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#01c1a8;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#11e2c5;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#6ffceb;\"><\/span><span class=\"vcex-divider-multicolor__item wpex-flex-grow\" style=\"background:#b0fbff;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">The Operating Life Formula (OLF)<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>5 Areas for Balance<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The Operating Life Formula was first devised by our friend and business mentor James Simms as part of an extensive business training course known as Business by Design. The copyright in this material is still owned by James, who has kindly allowed us to adapt it for use with this program. This follows the major premise of our work, adapting corporate leadership training to assist GM&amp;F\u2019s to govern their households more successfully.<\/p>\n<p>The diagram below is a simplified version of what is the very heart of Business by Design. This will help you see which areas of your life you should be allocating time and attention to if you wish to run a more balanced and stress free life.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/the-operating-life-formula\/the-terrain\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7482\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7482 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1824\" height=\"1464\" srcset=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain.png 1824w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain-150x120.png 150w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain-300x241.png 300w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain-768x616.png 768w, https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/The-Terrain-1024x822.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1824px) 100vw, 1824px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Most people make the mistake of expecting that area 1 &amp; 2 will provide all of their families physical and emotional needs. The truth is that without the extra income provided by areas 3, 4 and 5, most families will either struggle with poverty or area 1 will take vital time away from area 2.<\/p>\n<p>Most families struggle setting boundaries between area 1 and area 2 bringing work and it&#8217;s associated stresses home.<\/p>\n<p>Opening up all areas creates balance, prosperity and enjoyment, but also requires leadership and responsible management.<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/reaching-agreements\/\">Reaching Agreements . . . . . . . . The Decision Making Process &#8211; DMP<\/a><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Operating Life System (OLF) &#8211; See which areas of your life need time and attention and what level you are operating at emotionally.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":321,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[376],"post_series":[377],"class_list":["post-7476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-emotional-intelligence-skills","tag-the-good-king-and-queen","post_series-good-fathers-and-mothers","entry","no-media"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/321"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7476"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7476\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7476"},{"taxonomy":"post_series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narcissismcured.com\/thelovesafetynet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_series?post=7476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}