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I have registered as a gold member. I also purchased the Love Safety Net, but have not received it. But every time I try to open things I get asked to buy it. I don’t think I am navigating your website well.
Susan
Sorry Susan – I will get someone to help you within the next hour 🙂
I am a silver member, but cannot access the rest of your article, “Stability is the new black”.
Hi Mari, Thanks for letting me know I will get someone to help you immediately.
Hello and thank you, every time I read and re read I learn more, and is so wonderful. ! You articulation of the problems and solutions is wonderful. I love that you are a real person and not just text book psychologist. You are helping me Hall my life with real techniques that are empowering. Again thank you both.
On a different note some of my love safety wb hasn’t down loaded and a page from Through the Looking Glass also. I can’t find where to change my membership on your site from gold to silver please, I cannot afford another month, Im sorry as I believe you are so worth it. I havn’t got to the point of financial independence yet,! Thank you D
Hi Deme – Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you. We have had a terrible storm here and have been without power. I will get someone to help you right away.
I have been a member for over a year and now want to cancel the membership and monthly deduction. How do I proceed?
Hi Laura, I will get someone to help you straight away. You may want to come back soon as we will have some amazing new content coming soon to the Gold Members Area. I have been quiet here while we have been preparing new movies and content aimed at dumping emotional baggage.
Thank you for the advice about – you have to appear to be emotionally and financially stable. I think about that when I interview for jobs.. so that I don’t look desperate.
I have been recently watch youtube vids on Sociopaths.. what do you see as the difference between a narcissist and a sociopath?
Hi Gracie 🙂 I am not a doctor and so I can’t really give an answer that you can use for a diagnosis. The way I see it sociopaths have NPD but are out in the world playing their two faced tricks just the same as they do at home. A sociopath might be someone with NPD who is a clergyman or car salesman and uses their charm to win people over and are not always honest about what they have to offer. No different really to someone with NPD except that a person with NPD might genuinely be good to their friends and hold down a respectable job but still play the two faced game with their double life kept more private and mainly just hurting their family.
Dear Kim, I have just finished the first week of the baggage dumper series and I have a question, although I don’t know if this is the right place to ask it. I have done the exercises that are meant to transform the critical soundtracks in our heads and hearts. Am I supposed to keep doing them till I think they are working, or does some re-wiring happen on a deeper level? I will say that even after doing them a couple of times it seems my fear level is down and just about gone!
Hi Yvonne. That is brilliant to hear! Each one of the exercises included in the Baggage Dumper program is very powerful in itself, and can be used to let go of all sorts of negative emotions and states, as you have been finding. If you do any exercise in the program more than once, it goes looking for more to get rid of, which is great, of course! Nevertheless, the program is designed around doing each one once only, with the “rewiring” happening of its own accord, as you engage with the exercise. In a recent webinar, I was talking about the idea of a “problem tree”. Your issue can be seen as an old, dead tree, and the exercises are aiming to chop away at the roots so the tree will fall over and be gone. You might find that the very first exercise is the one the that makes if fall! Or you may find that you need each exercise in the program to chop away another root, so by the end of the program, the tree will fall. Even if you find that your original problem has gone early in the program, it is really worth continuing through the whole program, as we tend to have other layers of issues, big and small, hiding under our major ones. Doing that total clearout will help you feel completely light and free!! Also, the final exercise helps you connect with your beautiful future – one of the most powerful parts of the program and a personal favourite. (My first experience of that exercise completely changed the course of my life, through one small but important insight.) So, as you go through the program, just note the changes that you experience and have faith that there is more to come, which will help with anything not dealt with in the earlier exercises. Warmest wishes to you and all the best on your journey!
Thank you Dallas Fell for your prompt response! I am even more excited to continue the journey now. Yvonne
Hi Yvonne, I will get Dallas to answer your question this morning – but I know that her techniques work very fast!!!
Many thanks to you Kim for your caring consideration!
I took the quiz after the magic scissors video, but it keeps coming up incorrect. Hmmm. I’ve watched the video and tried three times and I don’t think my answers are wrong. Can you check to see if there is an error? I did have a blip on another quiz and am wondering whether it’s my iPhone. Help! Has week three material come out yet?
Thanks.
Estela
Hello again Kim! Sorry to be a bother but in trying to gain access to Week 2 of Baggage Dumper, I got a message that I could not get the content until the second week of my gold membership. I got a confirmation of registration on July 16, which I think would make this the second week of my membership. What shall I do? Thanks, Yvonne
Good afternoon, I am sorry to bother you but I am having trouble getting to week two. I feel that I have completed all the quizzes and answered correctly(?) I am also getting the message I cannot move on until the second week, so I waited another week and am still getting the same error message. Is there anything I am missing? I have been a gold member since the first of July. I love this program because it is working, yes even in the first week as I was thinking of things I am holding on to, the memory of an awful event came to my mind and I am happy to say I have been completely healed of that event. Needless to say I am quite anxious to move forward. Thank you, Barb
Sorry Barb and Yvonne – I am working on it now.
I am having the same problem as Barb. I am anxious to move forward with the program but I keep getting a message that I can’t access it until the second week of my gold level membership! Like Barb I have had the membership for longer than two weeks. Are you out there Kim and Steve? Sincerely, Yvonne
I think it is fixed now, you may need to log out and login again to trigger the upgrade. If you are still having trouble with access please let me know. My apologies.
Thank you so very much. I am loving this program and your methods are extremely beneficial.